Monday, April 19, 2021 by Diana Farrell | THOUGHTS FROM THE STUDIO
Why did you start singing? Chances are it was because singing and performing made you H A P P Y 😃🤞 So what happens when it becomes a source of stress, worry, defeat, or self doubt? I was a collegiate singer for 8 years - undergrad through Artist Diploma - and I was performing at least 3 days a week. I loved it! Sometimes it was a formal concert or production, sometimes it was just for my studio mates or a classroom demonstration. Once you leave the cocoon of school, performances are fewer and far between. You start the endless parade of auditions and sometimes you don't get work for a while. Those first couple of years I started losing steam (and money), wondering if I would ever get to perform for an audience again. One day I walked into the audition room and I thought, "This is a long shot, so I'm just gonna give them a good show." That attitude changed everything! The people on the other end of the casting table WANT to be entertained and you WANT to perform, so do it! When I changed my mindset, every chance to be heard became a chance to perform and I loved what I was doing once more… I also started getting work. It's so difficult to practice being in an audition situation until you're actually there, so why not think of the audition room as your stage and have fun?
Monday, April 12, 2021 by Diana Farrell | THOUGHTS FROM THE STUDIO
Monday, April 5, 2021 by Diana Farrell | THOUGHTS FROM THE STUDIO
What's that old saying about opinions? Well, everybody's got one 😉 I'm back with more #MondayMusings
The beauty of age and experience is that you learn not to care about everyone else's opinions. I now have a much easier time wading through the muck to find constructive criticism that will actually help me grow and that is a skill I try to help my students cultivate. More often than not, someone's opinion of you and your voice has much more to do with the person doling out advice than the person it's meant for. When you hear advice or opinions on you and your work ask yourself: Is this coming from someone I can trust? Do they want to see me grow and improve? Or are they serving their own agenda? Check out my blog post for @lyricoperaoc on how I learned this lesson the hard way in their new series: #LOOCOffBook www.lyricoperaoc.org/offbook
Monday, March 29, 2021 by Diana Farrell | THOUGHTS FROM THE STUDIO
"I didn't have time to practice this week!" Yes, I hear it all the time and trust me: I feel you. There have absolutely been times in my life where I did not believe I had time to practice. Most of the time that meant I was not mentally in a place where I was able to focus during the time I had, either because I was overwhelmed with other things, didn't think the time I had would be "enough", or I simply wasn't motivated... or was a year+ into a global pandemic with another six months to go before most people venture into live music making. Sound familiar? Yeah. Sometimes it's overwhelming and you need to be gentle with yourself. We're all doing the best we can. So, what does practice look like for a busy working/SAHM mom of two when I do have the mental space to make it happen? When I'm very lucky, it is 45 minutes in a quiet house next to a piano studying my scores and focusing on tricky passages. The rest of the time, it looks very different: It may be listening to different recordings and interpretations of music in an earbud while prepping lunch for kiddos; it may be using bedtime songs to focus on my breath support and pianissimo singing; it may be speaking music in rhythm to the baby while we clap and play on the floor; it might even just be silently reciting music in my head while marking my breath before I go to sleep. It is often not caring about the funny looks I'm getting when parked at an intersection and singing at the top of my lungs while running a quick errand. The point is, there's always time to practice if I'm in the right headspace, have a proper goal in mind, and make a conscious choice. If I'm too burnt out to make the time, then scheduling time to decompress is *part* of practicing. After all, as many athletes will tell you, practice is 90% mental and 10% physical ...give or take.